By Jillian Pinks, VirtuALZ Registered Nurse
Taking care of your loved one, family, and everything in between can become very stressful and overwhelming. There may be times you want to scream at the top of your lungs or hide in a closet. These are normal feelings when you are overwhelmed and stressed. Our bodies must find a way of processing the “stress cycle.” There are many ways to help relieve that stress, but first, we must understand the stress cycle, as it is more than a feeling or a single-time occurrence. It is a process.
The stress cycle starts with an external event, such as caring for a loved one, that removes us from our resting or ground state or normal everyday life. It ends with a feeling of security, with the realization that we made it through a stressful event or time, have come out safe, and are again back to our resting or ground state.
Resting Ground State - Normal everyday life
Tension and Strain Phase - An event that causes or brings heightened stress, fear, or anxiety
Response Phase - How we respond to the stress
Relief Phase -The feeling of elation or security knowing that the tension or strain has passed
Not completing the stress cycle with the proper coping mechanisms can set our body up for additional stress, potentially leading to a breakdown. It can also mean that we are still experiencing that stress and haven’t allowed ourselves to process and recover fully. This can lead to increased sensitivity to any additional stressors we may encounter during this time.
Take a minute to recall the last time you had a stressful event and put the cycle into play. It may help you to understand the process better. The following are some ways to help complete the stress cycle.
If you have one hour:
Exercise (participate in a class with friends, dance, go for a run)
Schedule one hour to do whatever you want, and do not feel guilty
Call someone who cares for you and talk
Get creative (painting, sculpting, woodworking)
Take a nap
Give yourself grace
If you have 5 minutes:
Do some deep breathing exercises
Guided meditation (free apps online)
Compliment someone-this makes you feel better as well as the other person
Give or receive a hug
Journal-write down anything on your mind, good, bad, or reminders
Take a brisk walk outside, and get some fresh air and sunshine
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